I’m looking for a loyal and serious submissive patter,  who would be able to worship my ass, my whole body. For newbie  I will like you to read carefully and understand my add. I prefer to be call mermaid because I definitely looks like one you can call me miss mermaid but my name is Kiki. BDSM stand for Bondage, Discipline, Sadism and Masochism. Boundaries are important in any form of intamacy, but it's even more important in BDSM. I do  often use the phrase "Safe, Sane, and Consensual. 

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A SAFE WORD

 as my submissive you need a safe word. A safe word is a word that a sub uses during a scene to tell their dom that things absolutely need to stop and they need to be checked in with. A universal safe word is generally “red”, so you can use that, It can be anything as long as it’s absolutely non-sexual. I have a friend whose sub’s safe word is “pineapple”. While I don't think this is 100?solutely necessary in any fic, A lot of people use a “slow down” word as well, such as “yellow” or “mercy” to signal to their dom that they need to lighten up or change what they’re doing. You’d have to master a safe word which will be given to you prior the session.

- BONDAGE SAFETY. When you’re  in bondage it’s important to have me to check in with you.

- AFTERCARE. Once we are done with session  i do leave my  sub alone after a scene, especially if there was something especially difficult involved, it's essentially neglect. As my sub you would  receive physical affectionafter a scene, along with whatever i might want such as water, a snack, kisses, to lay down for a nap, or whatever.

Including these things is important and will make your fic much more realistic. And honestly who doesn't love some fluff at the end of a smut fic.

BONDAGE

Okay, here’s the thing. If there’s one thing I see in BDSM in fic it’s the same bondage positions every time. Bound to the bedposts, bound to the wall, and hands bound behind the back. hogtie, frogtie, reverse prayer, crotch rope, shrimp tie, and rope harnesses. facial bondage, hand/foot bondage, breast bondage, and genital bondage. I Also consider bondage devices/wearables instead of just tying a sub up. Spreader bars, arm binders, blindfolds, collars, hoods, clamps, and gags are all good ideas to me. 

FETISHES

Another thing I rarely see covered are fetishes. A fetish is a sexual attraction to something otherwise non-sexual.

The 5 most common fetishes am mainly into are body piercings, hair (on the head or otherwise), leather, high heels, and feet.

- Other fetishes include latex, age play, animal role playing, medical play, cum, hands, menstruation, smoking, guns, urine (referred to as watersports), and electrical play.